I’m a guy, so the experience is probably a little different for us versus women. I’d rate my looks at average/slightly above average, I have a great job, own a home, a car, no debt, etc.. Nothing outlandish in my profile or anything to freak someone out. I think of myself as a pretty solid catch…
Anyway, I was on Match.com and saw a woman and thought “she seems cool - let’s shoot her a message and say ‘hi’…”. I get a reply saying the following:
“You seem like a really nice guy with a lot to offer, but no thanks. I would also like to advise you to know your ballpark and check out women in the same league as yourself. You might have a better time.”
I didn’t know who she was (nor did I want to anymore…) but damn - that one took a bit to shake-off.
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